Election Day: Just Couldn’t Resist

“Our God is in heaven; he does whatever pleases him.”
-Psalm 115:3, NIV

It is Election Day and I, for one, am extremely grateful that I know God is control. It may not always look like He is, but believe me, He is. As I stood in the election line today waiting my turn to exercise my right to vote, I kept thinking of Psalm 115:3 and found myself continually turning my thoughts to pray, “God, have mercy on our country.”

As I returned home, I flipped on the TV before heading over to the hospital to visit my Mom, who is recovering and rehabilitating from brain surgery. Right as I turned it on, NBC’s “The Today Show” was rebroadcasting Jimmy Fallon’s, “If Puppies Could Vote.” Oh my goodness….what is cuter than a puppy golden retriever? In light of a very serious subject, little “Gary” brought some much needed levity. If you haven’t seen it, here you go:

 

52 WEEKS, 52 CHANGES: Believe for more, Be more brave, like my daughter.

“It’s either the safe, secure life, living within the box without enterprise
or resourcefulness, or it’s the risk of initiative and faith,
the road less traveled. Jesus wasn’t willing to live the contented,
predictable, unremarkable existence of a small-town carpenter.
He knowingly abandoned that role and ‘set his face toward Jerusalem’ and
what he knew would be abuse, rejection, torture, Golgotha, death,
the grave, resurrection and ultimately heaven so that his Father’s
purposes would be fulfilled.”
The Crime of Living Cautiously
Luci Shaw

Today was yet another tearful goodbye at the airport. Candace following God’s leading as she “sets her face towards India” once again. Oh how I would love to hold her tight (like I did in kindergarten) and keep her close, but then I would be holding her back.

Hold takes on a whole new meaning these days.

Over the past few years, I’ve written a great deal about my “nest” transforming from “empty” to “new” nest. It’s that time of year for many of you. Or perhaps one of your friends. Maybe my musings will help soften the blow of children flying from the nest. Know I am praying for each of you, maybe not by name, but in the Spirit. Let’s do this together.

“I think the hardest thing for a mother is to make it possible for a child to be independent and at the same time let the child know how much you love her, how much you want to take care of her, and yet how truly essential it is for her to fly on her own. It’s definitely the ‘pushing out of the nest syndrome.'”
— Madeline Albright

Help for your “hurting Momma heart”:

Three Tuesdays in August (2008)

And Then There Were Two (2008)

And Then There Was One (2008)

Marriage takes Center Stage

“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.”
Sir Winston Churchill (1874-1965);
British Statesman, Prime Minister, Author, Nobel Prize Winner

“I’m not afraid of storms, for I’m learning to sail my ship.”
Louisa May Alcott (1832-1888);
Novelist

This past week a national storm moved across our country; attacking a company that stands for what they believe in. Wasn’t it Alexander Hamilton or maybe Peter Marshall, who once said, “If you don’t stand for something, you will fall for anything?” With a daughter as an RMD (Restaurant Marketing Director) for one of our local Chick-Fil-A’s, we know up-close-and-personal the integrity and fortitude of this great company. Exhilarated by the public support of a family-oriented business, Brooke came home from a 13-hour day so grateful for families who came out to say, “Thank you.”

As I watched, read, and listened to countless conversations this week about this “storm,” all I could think was, “Well, if it takes chicken sandwiches to get Christians rallying to the cause of Christ, then so be it.”

Christ compels us, HIS CHILDREN, in Matthew 5:13-15, to be “salt and light.” He continues to tell us that if the salt loses it’s flavor, it will be thrown out.

Boy, I don’t want to be “thrown out.” I want loads of flavor flowing from my Christian walk, don’t you? Chick-Fil-A and owner, Dan Cathy, gave me a good kick in the pants this week and a strong reminder to stand for the truth of the gospel-no matter the cost or the storm that might bring on.

Today, my husband and I celebrate 28 years of marriage. If I know one thing, I know I stand for marriage and family. In Rock-Solid Families, I write, “During my first pregnancy, someone recommended reading Edith Shaeffer’s What is a Family? Edith’s words deeply affected me. She set the course for my parenting by gently encouraging me to see my family in thirty or forty years…at our first family reunion. I knew what I wanted to see–my husband and me still together after all that time, a family that shared a strong faith in God, grandchildren being raised in spiritually healthy homes with laughter and joy, and lots of love.” Wow. We are almost at that thirty year mark and boy, has God been good. Oh, there have been massive storms, yet each and every time, God has been there. I am so grateful we put our faith and trust in God, and not ourselves. Without him, I truly believe we would have been another statistic.

So, today, I celebrate my husband and family. Know that you, too, have a very real GOD who cares deeply about the condition of your heart, marriage, family, and life. There may be a storm looming over your life today. Please call out to God. He will be there for you. I promise.

“Without purpose, life is an experiment or a haphazard journey that results
in frustration, disappointment, or failure. Without purpose, life is subjective,
or it is a trial and error game that is ruled by environmental influences and
the circumstances of the moment. Likewise, in the absence of purpose, time has
no meaning, energy has no reason and life has no precision.”
Myles Monroe, as quoted in Rock-Solid Families

TRUE FREEDOM IN CHRIST, Part II:

As I mentioned yesterday, here are the simple, yet beautiful,
cards I had made via Shutterfly, to give to anyone who
asked about my Night Light Jewelry or Thai Tote/Itsera products.
A simple, effective, and easy way to increase awareness about
the sex trafficking industry.

Here is Part II of “Voices for the Voiceless”:
My look into the oppression of women worldwide,
particularly highlighting the sex trafficking/sex trade issue.
In no way am I even attempting to be an expert of this far-reaching problem,
but hope to somehow bring awareness and support to those who are the experts;
working tirelessly on the frontlines to combat this oppressive beast.
They are my heroes.

“By far one of the most devastating ancient breaches is the exploitation of vulnerable women, specifically concerning those trapped in the perils of sexual slavery due to impoverishment, gender inequality, or social class. In her book review of Parrot & Cummings Sexual Enslavement of Girls and Women Worldwide (2008), Clinical Psychologist, Nancy M. Sidun, cites vulnerability as a core issue in the exploitation of women and girls worldwide: ‘Sexual slavery in its varying manifestations is driven by social, cultural, political and economic factors. Women are forced to seek a better life or escape a tortuous one due to lack of economic resources, illiteracy, cultural expectations, family obligations, war and civil strife, and domestic abuse. All these elements make women more vulnerable to exploitation. Sexual slavery involving girls and women is growing and will continue to increase unless there is a universal paradigm shift that addresses the gender inequities that justify sexual slavery’ (p. 497).

The women of the Republic of Malawi, a landlocked country in Southeast Africa, live in a state of vulnerability and are therefore intimately acquainted with the great pain of impoverishment and economic strife. Malawi’s rising population currently stands at 13 million (White, 2010, p. 80). Seodi White, in her recent article, ‘Extreme poverty and its impact on women’s vulnerability to HIV transmission: a rights issue,’ explains the plight of Malawi women:

Malawi has two lineage patterns, patrilineal and matrilineal. In both societies, the position the women assume is inferior to males as decisions are primarily made by men. The distribution of poverty levels across the regions in the country also reflect the nature and character of patrilineality and matrilineal societies. For example, the southern region of Malawi, which is mainly matrilineal, is also the poorest in the country. And according to recent estimates, the current status of poverty shows that 52.4% of the population lives below the poverty line. This translates into about 6.3 million Malawians who are poor with food insecurity and chronic malnutrition being one of the most important indicators that characterize the vulnerability of the poor. And among the poor themselves, the female-headed households are normally worse off’ (2010. p. 80).

What does this mean for the Malawi woman? She faces the stark reality of providing for her children, no matter the cost of her self hood. In fact, many women feel as if they have no value at all (p. 82). White adds, ‘Poverty is a major influence that often drives women to opt for economic survival, rather than the protection of their sexual and reproductive health rights. Poverty places women in a situation where they engage in sexual activities which they would otherwise avoid if they had had more income or any income at all’ (2010, p. 81-82). Therefore, widowed or unmarried (2010, p. 82) Malawi women, in an agriculture-based society, are forced to work as tea pluckers, where in turn for low production they are forced to have sexual relations with male supervisors in order to keep their jobs. This oppression diminishing their sense of self.

Other Malawi women, living in the rural areas, have the responsibility for ‘fetching fuel wood for domestic purposes and they frequent the forest reserves on a regular basis. Women who sneak into the forests without passes or permits are sexually abused by the guards if caught’ (p. 83). And Malawi women living near Lake Malawi, near the male-dominated fishing industry, are known to trade sex for fish in order to feed their households (p. 83).

The story of the Malawi women is not an isolated story. The effects of the global economic crisis reach to the four corners of the globe; perpetuating an ever increasing state of vulnerability for women, particularly the widowed, unmarried, and impoverished. Researcher Zoe Elena Horn writes of the damages done to ‘the informal economy’ (2010, p. 263), defined by the International Labour Organization (2002) as, ‘All economic units that are not recognized or regulated by the state, and all economically active persons who do not receive social protection through their work’ (p. 263). Horn states:

Despite their strategies to balance budgets, some workers resorted to borrowing from neighborhood storekeepers, or local moneylenders. Some waste-pickers borrowed from scrap-shop owners, while home-based workers in Thailand reported borrowing from moneylenders to pay the debts piling up from other moneylenders. In these informal credit markets, workers were being charged upwards of 30 percent a month in interest. These interest payments increase financial pressure on informal workers, and reduce their earnings over the long-term. As a result, women’s economic, physical and emotional burdens are being compounded during the crisis, and the relative socio-economicvulnerability of poor working women and their families is worsening (p.270-272,273).

Senior Editor of Harvard International Review, Richard Re, affirms this global dilemma: The world’s vast disparities in wealth, education, and opportunity make this kind of slavery possible. Desperation and hope leave all too vulnerable those people most determined to escape inhumane conditions. This tactic is usually used to target girls and young women. Impoverished families in rural areas recognize a greater economic value in their male children and are often motivated by patriarchial cultural mores. When well-dressed men come offering a small monetary down payment (in one documented case, less than US$25) to transport girls away from home to work as maids or waitresses or in other possible    occupations, these families often jump at the opportunity. In reality, these men are slavers who take their willing cargo to the city to be ‘broken in’ for their life of involuntary prostitution. The girls are sometimes beaten,raped, starved, or tortured until they submit to their keepers’ demands. In Mumbai, some 90,000-sex slaves work in the city’s red light district. Some 20,000 Burmese girls are believed to be held in Thai brothels (2002, p. 32-33).

Global economic decline in the Soviet Union, known currently as the Union of Soviet Socialist Republics, also struck to the heart of women and children, as the economic collapse forced closings of many factories in which the women were employed. Thus, ‘many rural women migrated to urban areas in search of employment opportunities’ (Orlova, 2005, p. 157), only to find themselves falsely informed and trapped in the sex trade. Orlova concludes, ‘Although many trafficked Russian women possess significant levels of education, work experience, and professional qualifications, they still fall prey to traffickers because of economic desperation’ (p. 165).

In light of such harsh realities that are often difficult to comprehend, many national governments, world-relief organizations, NGO’s (nongovernmental organization), Christian Mission Organizations, and NPO’s (nonprofit organizations) are raising their voices for the voiceless and rallying resources to provide relief in the form of education, community development, safe houses, rehabilitative services, life development courses, and employment all in an effort to revitalize and restore victims and their families. Step Ahead, a Christian-based integrated community development organization, based in Thailand, has spent the last twenty-five years empowering the Thai people, specifically those living in Bangkok’s largest slum, Klong Toey, by making micro loans a viable option and alternative to the oppressive money lenders.  In doing so, families become self-sustaining and less vulnerable to exploitation in the sex trade, which literally is in their backyard. In 2004, after the devastating Asian Tsunami of December 26, Step Ahead launched four child development centers in an effort to educate Thai children. Typically, Thai children receive only a sixth grade education, but with these efforts being put forth, the face of Thailand’s future will be changed. No longer bound by illiteracy and impoverished communities, families can actually thrive in their ability to be self-sustaining entities. Epidemiologists Chris Beyrer and Julie Stachowiak note:

As Thai women and their families have become increasingly aware of the dangers of sex work, the number of Thai women willing to work in the sex industry has sharply declined. This has driven traffickers further afield—into tribal areas, and to Burma and Laos, to find women and girls (and parents) ignorant of the dangers of sex work. This is true for male sex workers in Thailand as well—an increasing share of gay bar and brothel workers are Burmese and tribal youths (2003, p. 109).

Step Ahead has recently partnered with Night Light International, CBN (Christian Broadcasting Network) Siam, as well as industry leaders, UNESCO, Thai church leaders, and the Thai government, inaugurating the “Stay in School Campaign”—targeting Issan, a very poor area located in Northeast Thailand. Through community programs, families will learn how to generate income, become self-sustaining, and most importantly, see local churches and ministry leaders rolling up their sleeves and actively pursuing the cessation of century-old strongholds of oppression.

‘This action will be a direct hit on the root of sexual exploitation,’ notes John H. Quinley, Founder of Step Ahead Integrated Community Development Foundation. ‘Large percentages of young girls and women come from Northeast Thailand, due to the abject poverty of their communities. By offering education, training, micro loans, life skill classes, family counseling, and community development—generational curses will be broken and the strong root of oppression dealt with’ (J. Quinley, personal communication, July 5, 2011).

It is this pattern of exemplary human service and action that will actually uproot the tendrils of centuries of oppression and bring true and lasting change. The efforts of these diverse organizations establishes a pattern for overcoming the oppressive, heavy hand of Satan, whose original intent to distort God’s divine order and subjugate the distinct and God-designed role of woman. Their unity aligns with the 1993 United Nations Declaration on the Elimination of Violence Against Women, which, as stated in this excerpt, honors the value of women:

‘Recognizing that violence against women is a manifestation of historically unequal power relations between men and women, which have led to domination over and discrimination against women by men and to the prevention of the full advancement of women, and that violence against women is one of the crucial social mechanisms by which women are forced into a subordinate position compared with men’ (1993, p. 2).

Herein lies the original mandate of Genesis 2:24-25: that man and woman would be one. It seems God desires that one not be “dominating over” or “discriminating against” the other. Mutual dependence. Mutual strength. Within this biblical text, it is never assumed or apparent that Elohim, Creator God, purposes to oppress his womanly creature or have her dominated, suppressed, discriminated, or muted. Quite the contrary.

Reformed minister and lecturer, Dr. Elijah M. Baloyi urges, ‘The duty to improve women’s position in society is not the responsibility of a few people alone, but of everyone. According to the researcher, the church has not done enough pastorally in this regard’ (2010, p. 1). In his original research, ‘A Re-Reading of John 8:1-11 from a Pastoral Liberative Perspective of South African Women,’ he delves into the patriarchal rule of men in the Jewish community of Jesus’ day. He observes:

Cultural and traditional laws, rules and regulations were shaped by men alone, for the benefit of masculine seniority at the expense of women. It is worrying that the Jewish community, from which Christianity originated, promoted the oppression of women. This might have been the reason why some cultures that received Christianity also accepted the culture of seeing women as secondary human beings'” (2010, p. 1).

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Today’s thought: What can we do, in our personal lives and on a worldwide scale, to bring true freedom in Christ (Galatians 5:1). Is there something keeping you bound or oppressed? For me, it was (sense my use of past tense, WOO HOO!) the desperate need to gain the approval of others and please man. In order to truly fulfill my destiny in Christ, it was critical that I gain freedom in these two areas. It’s been PAINFUL, but oh, so freeing. Think of your life. Make one step towards freedom today.

And, worldwide, we can give, give, and give some more. ANY amount. OR, buy jewelry/purses, luggage tags, etc. from the two organizations highlighted in these posts.

Tomorrow, Part III: Jesus’s ministry to freeing women. It is so good!

TRUE FREEDOM IN CHRIST!

In honor of our JULY 4th day of celebration, I thought I’d share a snippet from one of my Masters research papers, entitled, “Voices for the Voiceless.” The research was near and dear to my heart for two reasons:

  1. We must bring awareness and give all we have to end human slavery and support those working on the frontlines. Both of these highlighted organizations, who are fighting tirelessly, need us RIGHT NOW. Please consider a FREEDOM DAY donation of any amount: $5-$5000! Both are in great need right now and can use anything we can give. Night Light International needs us to host jewelry parties or buy jewelry! If you need any help or information on doing this, you can contact me, janellrardon@me.com! Recently I had the idea to create a business card with just my name and email and website link, so that when women comment on my Night Light Jewelry or Thai Totes/Itsera purses/etc, I can quickly direct them to both ministries. It has been a great, easy tool for bringing awareness.
  2. As a professional speaker/author/counselor, it is my passion to help women, all over the world, find true freedom in Christ. By bringing awareness to Satan’s oppressive tactics and schemes, women can release debilitating emotional and spiritual oppression and become whole. I know firsthand the power of this oppression and am in the midst of finding this true freedom in Christ.

Voices for the Voiceless

         In a day and age of considerable accomplishment, astounding telecommunication, and abounding progress, a deeply disturbing, dark-natured beast of oppression lurks. Slavery, a supposed creature of the past, continues to hold a vast population of women around the world under a tyrannical, foreboding grip of spiritual, emotional, and physical oppression, specifically women trapped in sexual exploitation, due to impoverished conditions, gender inequality or social class. It seems that time has stood still, begging answers to why slavery still exists in a free and modern world. Authors Jensen and Otoo-Oyortey (as quoted in Parrott and Cummings, 2006, p. 4) note, “Millions consider violence against women normative because it is so deeply embedded within history and culture.” Yet, within the annals of Biblical history, both the Old and the New Testament lay the recorded historical accounts of God’s design for woman and Jesus’ ministry toward women. Here, hope unfolds through the unlocking of ministerial patterns, the releasing of truth, and the establishing of principles that enable women today to serve as a voice for the thousands of voiceless women still bound in oppression.

Oppression, derived from the Hebrew, lachats, means “to squeeze, press” (www.blueletterbible.com). Since before time began, the heavy hand of oppression, which is rooted in pride, can be traced waging an arm wrestling match with the mighty hand of Truth. As recorded in Isaiah 14:12 (New International Version), Lucifer, the bright shining star of heavenly cherubs, pressed to be bigger and better than God. No longer satisfied with his station in heaven, he desired for himself and his legion of cherubs more. More power. More might. More position. It is recorded that he says “in his heart” (Isaiah 14:13-14):

I will ascend to heaven;

I will raise my throne above the stars of God.

I will sit enthroned on the mount of assembly,

on the utmost heights of the sacred mountain.

I will ascend above the tops of the clouds;

I will make myself like the Most High.

At the core of this initial declaration of emancipation from the one true God is a desire for supremacy, power, and ultimately, control. The writing prophet, Ezekiel, records a veiled reference to Satan in Ezekiel 28: 11-15 (King James Version),
granting more information and insight as to how and why Lucifer, or Satan, fell
privy to the sin of pride:
Thus saith the Lord GOD; Thou sealest up the sum, full of wisdom,
and perfect in beauty. Thou hast been in Eden the garden of God;
every precious stone was thy covering, the sardius, topaz, and the diamond,
the beryl, the onyx, and the jasper, the sapphire, the emerald, and the carbuncle,
and gold: the workmanship of thy tabrets and of thy pipes was prepared in thee in the day that thou wast created. Thou art the anointed cherub that covereth; and I have set thee so: thou wast upon the holy mountain of God;
thou hast walked up and down in the midst of the stones of fire.
Thou wast perfect in thy ways from the day that thou wast created,
till iniquity was found in thee (King James Version).

Iniquity, or ‘evel in its Hebrew translation, refers to “injustice” (www.blueletterbible.com). Is it perhaps, here at this juncture, that the seeds of injustice (in the context of this research) expressed in oppression, entered the fabric of our universe? Clearly, Ezekiel affirms Satan’s presence in the Garden of Eden, where it is recorded he first tempted God’s first two children, specifically targeting and addressing first, the woman (Genesis 3:1-7). Here in the Garden of Eden, a place of creative perfection, several questions arise:

  • Isn’t it interesting, even perplexing, that Satan, disguised as a beguiling, bewitching serpent, coaxes the woman to forego obeying the directives of his previous Sovereign, God the Almighty, knowing full well the ramifications of such disobedience and self-will?
  • Is it at this particular moment, in the history of mankind, that an inroad to controlling and oppressing centuries of vulnerable women enters the realm of life in this world? A battle of wills ensues.
  • Can we surmise that at this same particular moment, Elohim, God the Creator, isn’t taken by surprise and therefore sets into motion a stream of mighty men and women who, throughout centuries to come, will blaze with courage and tenacity to defeat this oppressive beast? To become a voice for the voiceless? To restore pride and dignity to the oppressed?

Mere supposition, but seemingly validated in the annals of Biblical history. Certainly it was not God’s design to oppress the woman he so carefully crafted for his beloved Adam. In contrast, he offered both Adam and Eve complete freedom to enjoy His created world, as evidenced in Genesis 2:18-25, which records the creation of both man and woman, concluding in verse 25, “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.” One flesh signifying complete physical, spiritual, and emotional unity. This expression of the divine order of God—man, then woman (the helpmeet)—designed to fully depict unity. Duality, not dominance.

It isn’t until Eve succumbs to the temptation of the Oppressor that God speaks his directive, “Because you have done this:

I will greatly increase your pains in childbearing;

with pain you will give birth to children.

Your desire will be for your husband,

and he will rule over you (Genesis 3:16).

God’s directive to Eve is not a curse, but a necessary correction. Biblical feminists rile at this suggested “male dominance” or “patriarchal system.” Dr. Julie Kelso, Assistant Professor of Philosophy at Bond University writes, “For many contemporary feminists, the Bible evokes a backward thinking, patriarchally defined body of literature and a social, political and economic ideological framework that has historically been used to maintain and perpetuate the oppression of women” (Kelso, 2007, p. 4).  Philosopher Jerome Gellman adds, “The story of Adam and Eve in Genesis, chs. 2-3, has historically been taken to endorse male normativity, especially in sexuality. There have been some exceptions, in medieval times in particular, which had little impact over time. Adam is the normative sexual being to whom Eve is subordinate. This, in turn, has helped shape gender attitudes for the Western religious tradition” (2006, p. 320). Christian apologist and writer, G. K. Chesterton responds to this viewpoint:

The Fall is a view of life. It is not only the only enlightening, but the

only encouraging view of life. It holds, as against the only real alternative

philosophies, those of the Buddhist or the Pessimist or the Promothean,

that we have misused a good world, and not merely been entrapped in

a bad one. It refers evil back to the wrong use of the will, and thus declares

that it can eventually be righted by the right use of the will (Collins, 2010, p. 158).

Chesterton points to the reality of the serpent’s tempting of Eve. He goes in for the kill with the woman, not the man. Knowingly, the tempter comes when Adam is absent from the scene. In Judeo-Christian tradition, Adam serves as Eve’s “covering” or “protector.” Does he somehow smell the scent of emotional vulnerability and therefore seize this moment to slither in and pierce the Divine order set in place by God himself? (Genesis 2:24).

Vulnerable, derived from the Latin root, vulnerare, means to wound. Dictionary.com defines this state of vulnerability as leaving someone “exposed or open to emotional or physical danger or harm; easily persuadable or liable to give in to temptation” (www.dictionary.com). C. John Collins adds, “One of the major effects of that corruption was social: Adam against Eve, Cain against Abel, Lamech the bigamist against everyone. One effect of redemption is to heal these ancient breaches, and one purpose of the Mosaic Law was to make possible a just social system in one people, as an invitation for the rest of the peoples to come to know the one true God” (Deut. 4:5-8) (2010, p. 156-157).
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If interested (smile), I’ll post the remainder of my studies over the next few days.

Perhaps sometime today, on this national day of celebrating freedom, you can think about areas in your own life where Satan has tried to “squeeze or press” the life out of you. Today is your emancipation day. Loosen his grip by falling before Jesus, the Author and Finisher of your faith. He is YOUR Deliverer.

52 Weeks, 52 Changes: The Vow. The Moment. The Future.

“Everyone here has the sense that right now is one of those moments when we are influencing the future.”
-Steve Jobs

With a million and one things to accomplish before Graduation Day 2012,
my heart had one prayer: “God, give me one moment where I know this has all been YOUR idea.” After putting in so many hours, writing my heart out,
and seemingly failing at test-taking (something I’ve never been good at),
examining personal strengths and weaknesses, listening to so many lying voices (in my head), and trying desperately to make my way through
a maze of conflicting desires and dreams, I wanted a moment of clarity. It came. In a stadium filled with over thirty thousand people,
gathered to celebrate their graduates, President Falwell led the graduates in the recitation of “The Pledge of the Graduate,” which states:

“As a member of the graduating class, and in the presence of those assembled witnesses and God, I express my gratitude to Liberty University
and promise to hold my degree so no loss will come to it.

I pledge to seek earnestly and faithfully to perpetuate this opportunity for other generations of young people, that our Lord’s work may never
lack for leaders of character and ability.

With whatever wisdom I possess and with reverence for the truth, I pledge the best of my life and loyalty to my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, to my country and to my alma mater. I affirm my determination to justify, through my own life and deeds, my inheritance from the past and to do all that I can to advance the cause of Jesus Christ.”

There it was. Forgoing “walking” because my sweet Brooke was graduating and I wanted first and foremost to be Mom. I couldn’t have been happier. After enduring so much with Brooke through the years, this was her moment, most of all. A college graduate. I couldn’t take my eyes off of her.

Except for the few minutes it took to stand and recite this pledge. Most of the graduates that day have their whole life in front of them. I have only half, if I am blessed with 50 more years. Somehow, age offers insights not given to the young.

With great sobriety and longing, I recited those words and vowed silently to use the remaining years of my life to advance the cause of God. I have absolutely no idea what or how or where that will be, but I know that Jesus knows. So many have asked, “What are you going to do with your degree? your studies?” I simply replied, “Time will tell.” Having decided to forgo licensure (due to time, money, and calling), I know one thing: I want to help women find freedom in Christ. IF I could do anything, I would travel the world, speak God’s Word anywhere and everywhere, and talk to women. Be a voice for the voiceless.

Do you need a moment? A moment to make a pledge to YOUR God about your future?

Somehow, standing in that stadium filled with God’s people from all over the world, made me smell heaven. As the Sounds of Liberty led us in worship, one by one, people stood. Lifted their hands. Raised their voices. The stadium swelled with the atmosphere of heaven. Oh, I can’t even begin to express the scene. It was a foreshadowing of eternity and quite honestly, I can’t wait.

When we finally stand before Jesus, our Lord and Savior, the One who gives us our gifts and talents, will HE say, “Well done, good and faithful servant”? In that sobering moment, two weeks ago, I felt a resurgence of empowering and a strong desire to hear him say those words to me.

In the end, no other voice will matter.